Bride's Traditional Wedding Outfits

Assalamualaikum.

Today i would like to tell you a story behind the bride's wedding outfits.

actually, we don't have a specific color or material of the outfits. But because the trend is "Classic & Traditional" season in malaysia now, so we both decided to wear a Malay Traditional Outfits on our wedding day.

because we don't have the specific color as i mentioned before, so we went to Jakel Mall and picked a blue color songket which match to both of us skin color.

I have found a good and talented tailor but yet cheapest Kak Fatimah, who stay in Jalan Ipoh. 

To all bride to be, do whatsapp her at 014-967 9693

Seriously, she can do what ever design you wanted and her sew is so neat and tidy. Her price also a very good price.

So back to the main story here.

She took only 2 weeks to finish my wedding outfits with excellent job.

please refer to the video below

want a full look of this outfits??

you have to wait until the day's come !!

well, thank you very much guys for reading my blog.

Salam

Bride's Wedding Tray (Gift Tray)

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Okay, as i promised yesterday to update about Bride's Wedding Trays (dulang hantaran), so here it is the story goes.

As what i wrote yesterday. All the decorations things i bought it online in Shopee. The shop name RIKA.

I bought 19 wedding trays with size 12" which 7 for groom and 9 for bride.

this is how its looks a like ;

This tray cost me about RM3.50 per pc.

I also bought a poly foam 12" (actually i cut it to 10" because i wrongly bought a size. it supposed to be 10" to fit the tray.

Okay, for the tray cloths, i bought it at Lafleur Ampang. As i mentioned in previous entry.

For bride's tray, i chose a cream color. I wanted it to be cute and sweet.

They said it looks like a cake.

I am satisfied with the simple decoration i have made.

This video is the time before i start the decoration.

This is the video after all the 7pcs trays have done.

Thank you for reading and watching the video. i will update more tomorrow and the following days.

Salam

Dulang Hantaran Lelaki

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Dear all, today i'm gonna tell you about my Dulang Hantaran.

Me and my fiance, we decided to make our own decoration on our dulang hantaran. Both sides. seriously. 

Below, you can see the photo attached and the video edited for our dulang hantaran DIY. 

I ordered the dulang, foam, certain smalls decorations things from shopee (online shopping website). I have no time to go here and there to find it, so i just click-click and save my time also my energy because i need to use my energy to decor the dulang by myself. 

So, if you are the type of person like me and still don't know where to find. please search in shopee. the shop name is "RIKA" or the ID : kcchia82

or you can click : https://shopee.com.my/shop/35108261/

You can find all the things you wanted in this shop seriously.

They have sewing equipment, beads, hotfix diamond, lace, thread, bunga telur, dulang, polyfoam, zip, button, 3d flowers, dolly paper, floral tape, candy bag, embroidery equipment, party goodies bag, door gift bag, swarovski, needles, sponge, corsage, velcro, ribbons, krafts equipment and etc.

just click2 pay and yeayyyy, arrived to your door.

But then, for the flowers, i bought it at Lafleur ampang, located at Bandar Baru Ampang, behind Spectrum Ampang.

We decided to make it simple because our theme is "simple and sweet".

So, for groom hantaran we chose to use black and white as a theme color. We found the similar design from pinterest, but we modified to be more simple and classic.

We actually wanna make it looks like cute, classic, old school.

Tadaaaa. it took several hours to finish all 9 dulangs.

I love the video background song, which named as "Aduh Duh Aduh Aduhai" by Kompang AKRAB and has been the intro song for Kisah Tok Kadi (singapore drama) you can go to vidio.com

That's all for today. I will update the Bride Dulang Hantaran made by me tomorrow. stay tune.

Thank you for reading and Salam

Bride's Application for Marriage Permission

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Since yesterday my entry was about the application for marriage permission on groom's side, so today, i present to you the story of bride's application for marriage permission which we need to go back my hometown located at Langkap, perak.

It took 2 hours for us to reached my hometown. Right after we reach there, we went to Klinik Kesihatan Langkap for my HIV test (mandatory for bride and groom in Malaysia).

Then, we went to my parents house for lunch and Zohor. 

We went to Tok Naib Changkat Jong's house but there is no one. My ayah called him, he said went off to office and will be back on 6pm. So then, we went back home again. waited for 6pm.

The time came, we went to Tok Naib's house again. He waited outside. He greet us. Then, the document submitted. 

This video taken while we on the way to Tok Naib's House.

they both chit chat about the the donation to poor people in our village got 15 people and my future hubby very interested about it. 

Me?? I just sit behind and facebook-ing

Groom Application for Marriage Permission

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Okay. For today, this entry is about Islam Marriage Application form progress. Which in the role of Islam Marriage Application procedure in Malaysia, we need to settle the groom part at the first place, after the application approved, then only we can proceed the second part of documents is bride's application.

So, we took an off day on 18.07.2018 (wednesday) just to settle the groom's documents. 

Print out the forms from http://ncr.jais.gov.my/ which we need to sign up. So then, there is 2 forms to be fill up. 

1. Borang 1A Akuan Pengesahan Permastautin (Resident Identification Declaration)

1A form is to fill up groom's address, period of stay in Selangor, must have 1 witness to sign the witness column, and must get the signature of Penghulu or at least Ketua Kampung.

2. Borang 2A Permohonan Kebenaran Berkahwin (Application for Marriage Permission)

2A form is to fill up groom's details (name, identiti card no., home address, date of birth, working details), bride's details (name, identiti card no., home address, date of birth, working details), solemnization date, place, 2 witnesses. 

So, we called Abie's youngest brother to be the first witness and the second witness is Abie's other brother. So we went to Penghulu Office and got a signature and stamp. After Zohor we went to Masjid As-Syakirin to get a signature and stamp from Ketua Jurunikah Masjid.

Then we went to Jabatan Agama Islam Selangor submitted the complete forms.

We waited for at least half an hour. 

After that, they have returned the document, approved to be send to Jabatan Agama Islam perak, Teluk intan (bride's part).

This photo taken at the back yard of Masjid Al-Syakirin Batu 6, Gombak to get the signature and stamp from ketua Jurunikah.

This photo taken while we waited for the approval. Right after submitted the complete forms at Jabatan Agama Islam Gombak, located at Selayang.

He got bored.

Alhamdulillah. The application have been approved. So, we are ready to go back my hometown Langkap, perak to submit all forms for Bride's part.

will update you soon.

Muslim Pre-Marriage Certificate

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Okay. we had collected our Muslim Pre-Marriage certificate at lembah Pantai (Organizer's Office). we went there around 9am but then, there is no one in the office. 

We'd informed by the person in charged that they only open for operation on 10.00am, so we decided to breakfast downstairs.

Sharp 10am, we went up to the office again, and we collect our cert. below is the photo of our Muslim Pre-Marriage Certificate or Sijil Kursus Pra-Perkahwinan Islam.

I am sorry for the very short entry this time because i need to go somewhere.

got to go, i will update more soon. 

Muslim Pre-Marriage Course

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Okay. I have updated about my engagement yesterday, and today the story focused on Our pre-Marriage Course.

This is a mandatory in Malaysia to all muslims who gonna married. So, long story short. I searched in google the location of this P-MC. Then, i got the P-MC located at Masjid Negara (Malaysia National Mosque). But since the training room was under renovation, so they moved the location to Majid Al-Firdaus, Segambut.

We went to the P-MC for two days on weekend 07.07.2018 - 08.07.2018. We had a very fun classes and We’ve learned so many info about marriage life in Islam and the things related to the marriage stuff. 

We also got a guideline for the Islam marriage procedure, how to fill the Islam Marriage Application Forms, documents needed, sign by who, and etc.

below is the photos and videos when i joined the P-MC

On the 1st day of our P-MC 

On the 2nd day of our P-MC

Look at that stripes shirt guy. He is my future hubby !!

A video taken while the class dismissed for lunch break and Zohor. 

new friend of mine : Mel

She is muallaf ( a new comer of Islam)

#thejouneyofNAbigday

Betrothal

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It has been a while since the betrothal. But today i decided to share it here. 

17th June 2018 (Sunday) Hijri date 03rd Syawal 1439. He came to my house with his family to visit us and proposed me at the same time. We both have discussed about this 2 weeks before Eid Fitr.

We requested to make it a very simple. Because there is a hadith said, we conceal the engagement and proclaim the marriage. 

There is no ceremony (which malay style, we have one ceremony that the groom's mother will put a ring on the bride's finger) this is not happened to me on the day. Because we chose not to. There is no nice dress to wear, i just wore my Eid Fitr outfit, emerald green the color theme of my family for 2018 Eid Fitr. That soooo me !!

They sited at our living room with my parents. Only Ayah and Mak was there. No one else. Me and my siblings are busy in the kitchen preparing the drinks and foods. I have been told to look nice on the day. I get dressed, a very light make up on my face which enhance my beauty. Hahahaha.

But then suddenly, my youngest sister came to me and showed me a ring on his finger.  And she asked teasingly "Is it nice?" 

I was blurred at the moment and i tried to recognized the ring. I was stunned how she can get the ring?? and she tried it before me?? ahhahaha. 

Well, i am so happy. Happy that on this age 33 years old. At last i have that strength, decided to get married and settle down with the guy i love so much. Which i have a very bad experiences caused me phobia and fear. I need all of you to Du'a for us both, that this betrothal will last till the day we married.

so, i attached this entry with some photos on the day.

Ring we both chose is a very simple ring, i requested to have a bit old school design. We bought it at Zen Gold located in Ampang Point, G Floor. With a price around RM500 ++

Here is a part of his family. 

From left : Khairul (purple shirt, his brother, the 4th in a family), Abie he's self (emerald green shirt), Khairul (one of a friend), Abah (batik shirt, Abie's father), Ayah Yai ( i'm not sure his full name, and he is one of family members), Alif (Pak Yai's son), Awen (3rd sibling) and the last one with grey shirt and chubby tummy is my Ayah.

This is another part of his family. 

from the right : Nadia (Mustard hijab, Abie's SIL, a wife of Khairul), Udo (the dark pink hijab, one of the family members but i don't know her name as well), Misha (thr green hijab we called her adik because she is the youngest in the family). a tiny cute little girl Qalisha (Abie's Niece a daughter of Awen + Shima), Shima (Light pink Hijab, Abi'es SIL a wife of Awen), Mak (light brown hijab with blue outfit is Abie's mother), another tiny little princess Qhaira a younger sister of Qalisha, 2nd daughter of Awen + Shima), Fiana (we called her kakak, the maroon hijab, 2nd last in Abie's siblings) and the last one, with dark emrald green color hijab is my Mom.

Alhamdulillah. everything is went smoothly as planned.

Thank you all. i will update soon about my married journey that we created a hashtag

#thejourneyofNAbigday